I have no problem with the way it's been handled, and in many ways to me, knowing that he died makes it even more compelling to watch and that much more sad watching his kids reaction and how the other captains are reacting during this rare "reality TV" moment. Knowing that he did not survive this, makes me very teary eyed thinking about my own father and my kids while they are showing this footage. Yes his lifestyle and occupation clearly led to this result, but it does not make it any less sad.