I don't think a manager should be all buddy-buddy with his players, that's not necessary to be successful. I do think that getting a manager who's willing to let players develop would be a good thing. That last thing you want any young player worrying about is making mistakes when he/she is in the field of play. I'll use Escobar as an example, every time he slumps at all Macha sits him down for a couple of days. On the surface it looks alright, Macha is chasing productivity because he needs to win now, he doesn't have a 5 year contract and that kind of security. Essentially what happens is Escobar is being punished for being inexperienced because he knows if he doesn't get a hit he's going to be sat down for a couple of games. So instead of relaxing at the plate he's up there worrying about not getting a hit, and that's exactly what happens to him. The most important thing any coach can do is make a commitment to a young athlete so he/she knows that you have confidence in them, then the athlete can focus on the task at and advance their learning curve. If a player is always worried about what his/her coach thinks, chances are they aren't going to get any better or progress very slowly. I saw this with my own sister playing college basketball, she was so worried about what her coach thought about everything that even though she started all 4 years, she was essentially the same player as a Senior that she was when she was a Freshman. When you're dealing with experienced players, then you absolutely play the most productive player, regardless of talent, when you're dealing with youngsters you have to be willing to deal with inconstant performance in order for the athlete to blossom and get that elite production on the back end. There have been some fantastic studies on the mental side of sports and more to the point life in general. Amazingly enough we tend to get exactly what we are thinking about. So for example, take my high school football players. If I have a QB who worried about throwing an INT, he's going to find a way to throw an INT, regardless what pass we call. If I have a wide open receiver running a route and he thinks "I better not drop this one", he's going to drop the ball. How many of us have done that in our lives? I know I have, I dropped the first TD pass ever thrown to me because I was thinking about not dropping the ball. If we flip over to baseball if Escobar is up at the plate worrying about making an out, that's exactly what he's going to do. If Parra is on the mound worried about throwing strikes he's not going to find the zone. If Weeks is worried about making a poor throw to first base it's going to end up being a poor throw. There is a direct correlation between our mental image and what happens in our lives, we have a way of manifesting/projecting our mental image into reality. I'm sure there are many skeptics out there but if you're willing to expand your horizons anything by Dr. Wayne Dyer would be a good introduction into these concepts. It has the potential to make you a better coach, better managing employees, a better parent, a better spouse... basically a better person. I was introduced to these concepts at a very young age, my father bought many audio series to listen to while we went back and forth to school (35 minute trip each way) and did the stable work, we spent a ton of time in the truck. I got started with Personal Power, I'm not even sure that tape series is still around. If you're interested in the message but not the author there are plenty of other good people turning out quality products, Dr. Dyer is just the author I'm most familiar with.