*standing ovation* Just to chip in my two cents on this one (bc I want to, not that it'll be earth-shattering)....Lay out rules. Clear-cut, no-one-is-exempt rules. Implement them mid-season if you have to. This has gotten to the point where, talented they may be, they're hurting their team and themselves. People freak out about 'What'll we do without Joey & Mikey!?', so these kids coast by their whole time in sports, acting as they see fit, with little regard for others. If they aren't willing to be a part of a team, there's nothing preventing them from leaving. The true concept of a team (IMO, 'I've got your back, and I know you've got mine') is SO much more valuable than an individual or group of individuals. These kids have no respect for that, so kick them off the team if they aren't willing to stop their arrogant, selfish, and crybaby ways.