I know of a couple who rented out a room in House on the Rock for their wedding. Was something like $30k. And I don't think they were particularly wealthy. Adding to it you've probably still got student loans at that point, gotta buy furniture and all that. And then save up for a baby in a year or three. I like what a cousin of mine did. Have a super-super-small wedding that basically only parents are invited to, do your honeymoon, and then invite everyone you want for a big picnic gathering. Plus since it was after the honeymoon the couple isn't exhausted from the day and more able to spend time with everyone else. ---- Meanwhile in crypto-land, I wonder if this is the start of that bigger gain everyone had been predicting. A cousin of mine called me yesterday looking to start with some play-around money but I had a hard time telling him that now is the right time, but rather suggested waiting for the next dip. I'm up 49% in crypto since 4/1, but weirdly I think this is going to turn out to be a bad lesson for me in expecting returns like that to be the norm. I made 1.4% in the real market for April and for a second I thought that was kinda bad, but it's actually not really that bad for a month.