Ok, but being competitve is also a good thing in life too. Sports for some, teach the will to be competitive, which can drive you outside of sports as well. I don't think it's fair to criticize people who are ultra-competitive because they like to win, or play their best, or be their best. My guess is that competitive people think that people who don't care if they win or lose are annoying as well. In fact, I can say that for certain.