I think it's the milestone age. In typical years, one probably wouldn't send a card to a great uncle. I hate the card thing in general, though. I wouldn't mind if they weren't so bad. They're either syrupy, tasteless, unfunny, or whatever. My great aunts and uncles are long gone, and on one side of the family, you'd have needed a scorecard to keep track of them. I'd see some of them occasionally as a kid. I'd say "hi," they'd say "my how you've grown," and then I'd hang out with relatives closer to my age. But I have an aunt who'll turn 90 this summer. She'll probably get both a card and a phone call. Under normal circumstances, I prefer phone calls for communicating with my aunts. I'll call each of them three or four times a year. On another note, Time Warner cable customers are going to lose their ability to plug a TV directly into a wall cable outlet. Granted, that method sucks for HDTV and satellite customers are used to needing boxes. But it's still one of the few current advantages to cable, and it does work well with old sets.