I have moved a number of times, and from my own experience, I can say that the first time is the hardest. After that, they're all pretty much the same. In 1998, at age 36 my wife and I moved from WI to NJ for her job. She knew her coworkers and people from her company, but I didn't know a soul. It took me getting a new job and developing work relationships to really consider it "home". Even then, it wasn't, as all our family and old friends were still back in WI. In 2001 we moved to Jacksonville, FL, and then in 2005 we moved back to NJ, this time with a little one in tow. Then two weeks ago we all moved to Singapore--again for her work. The problem with moving for work is that there's always one more opportunity 2-3 years down the road, so it's too easy to not develop any roots in the new place. Wherever I have lived, I have considered Wisconsin home, even if we were only there for 2 weeks a year. The other 50 weeks were pretty shallow--by our own doing. That has been a recurring mistake in each of the last two moves, as we didn't really reach out to seek new friends. As this latest move will be a complete culture shock, we're committed to reach out to more people and develop more friendships. You can't live like a hermit all the time, and it will be great to experience this region of the world with others who are (or aren't) more familiar with it than we are. We know that the whole "reaching out to other people" thing is a little uncomfortable at first, but we've got to forge ahead and seek those relationships. I would recommend to anyone to make a move and get out and live in the world, if its Sri Lanka or Cincinnati or Fitchburg. It helps if you've got employment in the new place, or at least some financial stability to help you manage the rough spots. With technology, it's easy to stay connected back home. You can video conference, or call, or send mail back and forth. You can visit new places and try different foods. You can watch the Brewers on MLB Extra Innings, or on the road. Missed holidays are a drag, but you don't have to miss all of them. In any case, if and when you return back home, your life is richer from the experience.