The online Washington Post has an interesting readers' debate on this. http://views.washingtonpost.com/post-user-polls/2010/06/would-you-let-your-child-sail-around-the-world-alone.html Some highlights ... 1) "Some of us fall off the beaten path for lack of will to keep pace with the crowd. And some break away strike out on virgin ground." analystdot1 | June 12, 2010 6:34 PM I think analystdot1 was attempting to glorify Miss Sunderland's breaking away, but there are other frightening interpretations. 2) "The number of helicopter parents in here is just amazing; humans are wired to seek adventure." Humans are wired to seek adventure, and they are also wired to protect their young. There may be a debate about whether living 16 years and displaying maturity equates to adulthood and no longer in need of parental support. Regardless, Miss Sunderland's adventure was not truly independent. The Sunderlands provided their daughter's boat with a GPS and satellite phone. In so doing, they became almost literal helicopter parents-by-proxy. When the mast broke, the helicopters came in the form of a rescue boat. Mature or not in her decision-making, Miss Sunderland was not behaving as an adult. Did Miss Sunderland buy or make the boat she was sailing in? Did she find sponsors on her own? Did she pay for the GPS and satellite phone and food and sailing equipment? No, no, and no, as far as I can tell. Like Hannah Montana before her, she rode the coattails of her father. One more no: to the question, Did she create this website? http://www.abby16.com/ I have to admit, I was biased against the parents already. That website only swayed me further against them. Then I read one response on the Washington Post comments. A writer who claimed to have read a lot on the situation said that Abby's parents did not encourage her to undertake this journey. They eventually decided to support her because they feared she would do it behind their back. "Abby Sunderland has been sailing since age 2 (not as a passager but as 'crew'). Her parents didn't encourage her; they couldn't discourage her and felt it better she travel with their help versus 'sneeking' [sic] out to try on her own. How do I know? Reading, lots of reading--which few here seem to want to undertake." Posted by: mil1 | June 12, 2010 1:19 PM I don't know if I should trust mil1 to understand what she has read, given her spelling prowess, but what if her perspective on the Sunderland family is true? Then they've used the logic of parents who reason, "Abby's going to drink anyway, let's just give her a wine cooler and keep an eye on her from a distance." The difference - the wine cooler here is sailing around the world, and the parents' keeping an eye on her from a distance involves a GPS, satellite phone, and the good graces of Poseidon or international ocean rescue agencies. Also, by definition, sailing around the world by yourself is not something you can do with your friends when someone else's parents go away for the weekend. If we liken sailing around the world alone to substances-that-are-illegal-for-16-year-olds, I think of something less regulated and more potentially transcendent than alcohol, like cocaine or heroin or ecstacy. After all, sailing around the world in a boat by yourself is for most people a once- or never-in-a-lifetime adventure. If you've done it, your life has been extraordinary, at least for a brief time. I wonder if Abby's parents would support their daughter if she demanded from them an incredible intrapsychic journey. After all, as parents, we encourage our child's independence and sense of accomplishment and adventure. Abby Sunderland's family supported her as she accomplished an amazing feat. She is the first 16 year-old girl to be rescued in the icy waters between India and Antarctica while sailing alone around the world. As parents, we also develop our child's sense of judgment and cultivate her sense of place in the human world. Abby seems to be less accomplished in this realm, but I wouldn't hold her accountable - she is ultimately only 16 years old. Thankfully, she still has a life ahead of her. She has the opportunity to for another rare accomplishment - and unfortunately one that is more and more necessary: to break her family's cycle of parental irresponsibility.