I always wonder when people sue over the death of a loved one and win money, do they spend it on themselves? Well, there's spending and then there's Spending. Going on a shopping spree, for lack of a better phrase, seems pretty cold. If I lost my S.O., got money from a related lawsuit, and used it to, say, pay down our mortgage so I could stay in our home...that doesn't seem quite so gratuitous. (And I hope it never becomes necessary.) Bwaz, I appreciate the reminder that we don't know the whole story, and that there is room in the judicial system to weed out the (relatively) spurious litigation. It's hard for me to have patience with the deceased in the case, given his apparent impairment while he drove, and it pains me extra that this guy whose car stalled has to go through this crap, but I'll try to reserve judgement for now. (Though my sympathy for the whole situation has pretty much plummeted.)