I've never been a fan of drinking hard alcohol with soda, just never got to be a fan of it. I've got a lot of drinks that I prefer, but from your description I don't know if you'd be willing to drink them. Random question about not wanting your drinks to look fruity, is that a personal choice or do you just not think it looks cool to drink a fruity drink? My personal favorites Blackberry Brandy and RedBull--you would like that one I think, but RedBull is even worse than drinking the soda Summer Hummers--Lime vodka and lemonade sometimes with a splash of 7-Up--looks green though Rasberry or Grape vodka and lemonade Gin or Vodka and cranberry--choice of vodka usually doesn't matter, but make sure it is decent Gin if you lean that way Hard cider beers--really gaining in popularity these days, but if your not comfortable with the appearance of a fruity drink, this may not be an option for you