I personally would never try to get a ransom for a ball like that. If you choose to behave that way, that's your prerogative, I don't agree with it at all, but that's your right to ask the ballplayer for something in return. Like someone mentioned earlier, I believe that by not asking for a bunch of stuff, the player/team would still give you something in return, and it very well could be more than you expected. That being said, there are a few things that I can't agree with: 1. Asking for something from a different player. Just classless, not relevant, and demeaning to the player. Ask Coghlan for whatever you want, asking Coghlan to get stuff from different players is overstepping the bounds of decency in my opinion. 2. Playing the salary and profession card. By HY introducing his salary and profession into the conversation, he immediately now looks solely like he's trying to milk a player for money/items of value. This turns from a "collector" looking for a trade to a poor attempt at sympathy for the poor cop only making 50K. To me, doing this really eliminates any of your "but, I'm just a passionate collector". No you're not. Your stated goal is to get balls specifically to get something out of the rich ball players that make so much more than a hard working diligent cop. I'm sorry, but you doing this completely exposes what you're trying to do, and playing the whole passive aggressive thing just makes you look worse in my opinion.