I was all ready to show off my Disney World knowledge, then I read through the posts from bork and FVBrewerFan and yeah... I don't have much let for you that'll be new. I've done both the on-site and off-site routes. If you can afford it, I'd definitely go on-site, and I'll echo the moderate class resort route. I stayed at Port Orleans French Quarter and it was great, surprisingly quiet for being on-site. Other things I'll echo without going into detail: 1. Get there early. 2. Park Hopping 3. Disboards.com (any question you could come up with has been asked there numerous times over) 4. Princess Breakfast (MUST for a girl that age, sure the food won't be worth the price, but the pictures will be priceless) As far as things to do for her, EPCOT will probably have the least (there are still things to do, but I feel that EPCOT plays mainly to an older audience). Also don't plan every day out to the minute, go with the flow. The only other thing that I have that hasn't been said is the Bibbidi Bobbidi Boutique. Once again, not cheap, but she'll love it.