It is not a nickname, it is another person. For example, when he is on the ball field or ice rink he is a bad mother who doesn't back down from anyone including catchers who weigh 100 lbs more than him. When he is accompanying a fashionable young debutant to the opera, tasting wine, hunting foxes or playing bridge he becomes the charming chap Tony Plush.Okay, well I'll probably stick to calling him Nyjer then, because I'm assuming that the only time I'll see him is on the ball field. I do have a man-crush I think, but I don't think he'll ever escort me to the opera. Which is probably for the best since my grandmother just had heart surgery, and I don't think she could take the news.