AK, I hear ya. I lost my older brother 2 years ago. In my first 8 years of teaching we had no deaths of current students or recent alums. Then last year a student committed suicide. Last summer we had a student die on a trip to Israel. A few weeks later, 4 recent graduates were driving home late at night from taking a tour of California baseball teams when they had a serious accident. A truck veered off the road, hitting an abandoned vehicle resulting in a massive pile-up. The students (I taught/knew 3 of them last year....all great kids...and the 4th was a true leader, role model, and hero at the school) were in a Honda Civic. They hit the brakes and successfully stopped. Several cars back, another Semi was unable to stop, and their civic was rear-ended and smashed into a flatbed. They were stuck in the car for several hours before being airlifted home to Phoenix. 1 died instantly, the other 3 are recovering before college. Injuries include broken backs, shattered legs/hips/arms, detached muscles, stitches galore. The day of the student's funeral, another '16 grad was getting ready to go and wound up suffering a fatal asthma attack. With all the kids that are foolishly drinking, doing drugs, and acting recklessly in high school, these were all good kids. If They'd asked me, I would have recommended driving home at 2-3 AM just like they did in order to limit the LA traffic. We did that drive in the middle of the night in college several times. So sad