You hit the nail on the head. I'm ok with something not working out as long as there was some logic behind it. In a way I'd have been more angry has they went all in this season because it would have betrayed their more bites at the apple philosophy.
The one thing I don't want to see is the team bounce from one way of running things to another. Of all the bad outcomes, chaos in the worst. The deadline move didn't work the way we hoped for this season. It sucks, but it'd have sucked worse had they traded half their future starting outfield, best infielder and a couple pitching prospects going all in only to get beat by a red hot Phillies team in the first round. That scenario would have left us without a future and no foundational stability in how the team operates.
For myself I like the more bites at the apple approach but if the team went with a build then go all in every few years I'd be ok with that. Miami won two world series doing that. The main thing for me is stick to what you decided is the best way to win it all. Even if it fails sometimes. There is no perfect way but there is a wrong way. That way is chaos.