Just because he might have more money than you and I, doesn´t mean that he should be forced to "pony up" a ton of stuff for a ball that is very special to him, especially when ponying up means giving away another player´s game used stuff. It isn´t like he didn´t offer Happy anything for the ball. By all accounts he was offering a number of signed items. He wasn´t being overally stingy, or just expecting the fan to give it back to him for nothing. Most human beings would have recognized the importance of the situation to the Marlins´player and not used that situation to swindle as much stuff out of him as possible. It´s called courtesy, it´s called kindness, it´s called empathy. All important aspects of how humans ought to treat one another. And those where not displayed by Happy in this situation. Once again, he had every right to ask what he did for the ball, but in doing so, he now has to accept the consequences of his actions (and how that shapes how people view him). And that´s fair. As far as the ball thing is concerned, people could still keep the majority of balls hit into the stands, but were there to be one of special significance, ML could claim that ball (and probably have some universal gift (non-negotiable) to any such fan who would catch said ball).