Welcome to the club BTA. As a Divorce' l have one word of advice, no matter how mutual and civil you think it's going to be... it's not going to end up that way. Take my advice, and protect yourself as much as possible. I trusted the other party way to much during my divorce, and got taken for a ride. On a more personal level. I'm very sorry to hear that, no one goes into a marriage expecting to get divorced. It's going to suck, but after you work through all your issues, I'm sure you will come out ahead. Perhaps you'll meet this smoking hot cool chick on your forum.. and well, life turns around in a hurry. If you're ever looking to hang at a tailgate, let me know. We're pretty pro at it, and you are always welcome.