PSA: I spend a ton of time with my 5 year old son and 8 year old daughter doing various outdoor activities while we are enjoying our beautiful summer in Wisconsin. Those activities often include swimming. Often, it is me watching both alone. Neither are swimmers, so this can prove difficult to watch both at times, especially when they both have different things they like to do. We had them in swim lessons at the Y, but like we so many other things, COVID ended that and they haven't got back in yet. Had one incident with my daughter at our local acquatic center. She swims in the 3.5 foot area (where she can stand), but there is an area where the pool goes from 3.5 to 4.5 feet where she can no longer stand. At a recent trip I was with my son helping him hop on the lilly pads in the pool, only to turn around and see my daughter desperately trying to keep her head above water as she tried to yell for help. People were everywhere. The lifeguard was about 15 feet away and never noticed. Fortunately, I waded over there quickly, grabbed her and she was OK. Last week, I was with both at my mom's outdoor pool in the yard at her place in Oconomowoc. The pool gets as deep as 9 feet deep on one end and shallow on the other where they swim. Other relatives were there. My 5 year old son was standing outside the pool, squirting people with a squirt gun. I told him to make sure to stay away from the edge and he assured me he would. My daughter wanted me to help her with a kickboard, so I was momentarily preoccupied with that. The next second I turned around, my son was in the middle of the 9 foot deep area, his head nearly submerged. He never made a peep. He could not call for help. No one ever noticed. I frantically swam over to grab him and carried him to the edge of the pool. He was shaken up, but okay. These kids are my world, and I am grateful that I still have every day to enjoy with them. Sometimes I ask myself how many more seconds I had left in that hourglass, and it terrifies me. Drowning is so quiet. Even in broad daylight with many people around. You always assume someone is going to see it happen. But they don't. It often doesn't look like anything. Watch your non-swimming (and heck, even your swimming kids) closely. I wouldn't wish the moments of terror on anyone.