So I'm applying for that golf club and I'm not a member yet. I need to existing members to sponsor me (to say I'm a cool guy and they should accept me) and I've gotten one couple so far, plus then the board meets to formally approve the application. So that means participating in order to meet people. The salesmanlady has asked me to give her a head's up when I want to come, which is plenty understandable so I'm not just some weirdo stranger walking around. But yesterday they sent me the monthly bill. Why am I getting a bill if I'm not a member yet? A friend wanted to go there and play today, but I said no since I'm not a member yet and inviting a guest seemed like pushing it. But if I'm paying membership dues maybe I should be able to do that. I'm not really sure how frustrated/upset I should be by this, as well as how I might broach this with the salesmanlady without coming across as rude (I'm still trying to make a good impression to be accepted). Also went to the golf club store and holy cow. They had a super-intro set for $250, the kind you buy for your teenager who may quit playing in a year, and then the next step up was $1200. They had absolutely nothing in-between. And this was a huge store. Even their used club selection was more than that. Ended up spending three weeks' salary for a full set plus extensions. I sure hope this isn't a mistake. Though good news is the three people I met at the club were super nice, and three of them I think I'll be golfing with a lot. The lady said I didn't come across like a police officer. She meant it like I didn't have that aggressive/focused sorta demeanor. I told her I could start yelling at her if it would make her feel better, but she declined:)