As far as I know, dealing with the dog running off is a no-win situation. If you punish him when he comes back, he thinks he's being punished for coming back. While it seems counterintuitive, as MrAgro says, I guess you have to reward him. I don't know what to suggest about the crate. It'd be nice if Tyson would buy into the concept because it offers a ton of advantages. For one thing, crates make the dog much safer in the car. People have died in airplane crashes while pets in crates have survived. Casey (my dog) was never good about the crate when I was home, but would sleep in it in my parents' basement and would use it when I'd leave the house. I eventually found it unnecessary to crate him when I left him home, but the crate's still around, though. I have the door detached, and he goes in there on his own when he wants some privacy. As far as being 75% potty trained, you may already know this, but Nature's Miracle is absolutely premium when it comes to getting pet messes (especially urine) out of carpeting. It has enzymes that actually 'eat' the stain/odor. Besides the fact that it's expensive, the only hassle is that you have to leave the spot wet (after soaking up as much urine as possible with paper towels). And after a couple of days, you may temporarily notice a horrific urine smell. That's OK, though; it means the product is doing it's job. You can get this at any of the chain pet supply stores. And for a first-time dog owner, congratulations on acquiring your dog the right way. The Humane Society, rescue groups, and reputable breeders are the right sources. (Well, Casey was literally 'born in a barn'; the offspring of knocked-up mothers deserve homes, too?as long as the dog is a give-away. I'm actually his second 'parent'. My brother had him before he got married; my former sister-in-law didn't want him because Milwaukee has a five dog per household limit and he got in the way of her being able to keep all of her dogs.) Obedience training is something you definitely want to do. If she's old enough, you may want to ask the instructor about your daughter being the primary trainer. Casey was obedience-trained, and when I got him, he came with a vocabulary. (He was almost 8 years old at the time.) I'd take him to the local tavern occasionally. I'd keep him tethered with the leash around my wrist. He'd just lie next to the stool and people would comment on his good behavior. When it was time for a potty-run, someone was always glad to hold his leash. There was only one minor hassle. One time, a friend pulled up in his truck with his dog. Casey recognized the truck, the man, and the dog. He jumped up, taking me, the stool, and my beer with him.