Speaking from recent experience, the crazy thing tends to follow some guys. That is probably true, but I think a lot of guys bring it on themselves too. One of my former roommates had this girl break up with him after 3 years, and then she kept jerking him around, messing around with him and then ditching and ignoring him. That went on for months, and then he started seeing another girl who turned out to be just as crazy. Then both of them were doing the same thing to him at the same time. The thing is, he never does anything about it and just likes the attention. He's very desperate for companionship, and I think some of the real crazies pick up on that. I mean, if a guy is paying attention, shouldn't he be able to pick out and avoid the ubercrazies? The ones that don't seem to care who they're with should probably expect that. Not saying that's you 2K8, I know I've had my share of crazies. the bottom line is that men are weak Honestly, I think this is true. Too many guys do give in. I don't think of myself as a weak person and I'm fairly stubborn, but I wouldn't want someone the opposite of me. I like strong women who aren't afraid to speak their mind and argue with me and challenge me.