I have 2 girls, now 6th grade and 8th grade. I don't make them play and they know it. The caveat is that they aren't going to be laying on their beds watching Tic Tok videos either. They have to do something whether its athletics, band, video club, acting, whatever. They have both played soccer up until 4th grade, and have played basketball from 3rd grade until their current ages. They both also golf. First off, golf is nice, because being an individual sport we can schedule it around all of their other activities. I wanted them to play soccer as a young child just because I wanted for them to get out and run. Within a handful of years neither of my children didn't liked playing it and quit. Now, basketball...Both my girls play games about 10 months out of the year, but they also do basketball activities the other 2 months. They play for their club team, AAU team, school team, and church teams. They love it, I don't say no, but I also don't force them to do it. My youngest is not great, but slightly above average. My oldest is usually one of the bottom on each team she plays on. I believe my oldest loves doing the drills, but not the game itself. She can shoot from anywhere and dominate the drills, but in a game she is invisible. When trying out she looks great, but its probably buyers remorse for the coach when the games start. My girls also do cross country and track when it applies for school teams. Get to know the schools schedule. Such as, starting in 6th grade girls can only do cross country. Track, volleyball, and basketball starts in 7th grade there.