[ I never used the word "all." Go back and check my posts. I'm careful not to do things like that, because I know the words like "all," "every," etc. encompass everyone or everything, and there are always exceptions to the rule. ] You said this: "When I can watch them hop out of the car and walk without the aid of a walker, cane, etc. and see them having no problems moving, they are too lazy." Your blanket assumption that a person who fits that description is too lazy is a slap in the face to those with not outwardly-visible disabilities. Of course, I agree with you that the majority of people who are getting dropped off in front of a store are probably not handicapped. However, lumping the people who are handicapped in that group is stereotyping. And Homer, my wife's probably going to end up getting a handicapped tag for her car because she has degenerative arthritis in her ankles and knees. She's blond, although she doesn't drive a Miata. Would you make the same comment to her that you did to the "bimbo", or does she get a free pass because she drives a Kia? Sorry to be so blunt, but this is an issue that is obviously near and dear to me. When my wife had surgery on her foot and had a walking cast that was basically invisible and chose to do things that "bug" people like taking the elevator up or down one story or get dropped off at the door, she got glares and poeple treated her like dirt. It's because people have these preconcieved notions about what a disabled person a supposed to "look like" that makes their pain even more intolerable.