Dear me, Don't even think about getting engaged to you know who, while you'll learn a great deal about yourself and relationships, there are better opportunities that you'll let pass you bye while you hold onto something that isn't right and never will be. When you go to college... while playing outdoor basket ball and the NHL 93/94 tournaments are extremely fun, they shouldn't be an everyday occurrence, or at least go to class first. This will make the first of year of school much easier, and you won't miss that Chemistry III mid term you'll forget and have to ace the final just to pass. Buying the car right before you go to college is a horrible idea, just go scout the game for Dad, trust me, you'll never live this one down, even the extended family will joke about it. While the car will be a bad idea, living off campus is worse, ditch the girl... then you won't need the car to visit her or the apartment for "alone time" with her and you can do whatever else was doing and just have random sex wherever. When a certain HR sup gets transferred to Ops and comes walking into your area of responsibility to throw her weight around, just keep your mouth shut after wards, you may not get lucky a second time. Make your move on another you know who at a party a couple of weeks after the incident previously mentioned. She's looking for a way out of a bad relationship and desperately wants you to do something about it. When you first think about buying a house, just do it. No whining about the extra responsibility, it's stupid to rent for 12 years, buy the damn house, your brother becomes a framer and your father picks up finish carpentry working on the lake property, it will work out. In case you end up in a different line of work with different people because you stay in MN after college, start investing as soon as you go full time, it's the best decision I've made.