Right now I'm the assistant coach and defensive coordinator for our school's 7th/8th grade eight-man football team. Last night the kids played their arch rival, and pulled out a tough, close 20-18 win against a team that was previously unbeaten. It was a heck of a game. But what should have been a great night ended up being tarnished when one of the parents of our backup QB/S (a 7th grader) got in the head coach's face and chewed him out for "not playing his kid more" following the game. The head coach let him say his piece, and basically listened before ending the conversation. Then, as the coach turned to walked away, the parent let out a vulgarity when describing this man's coaching skill. The head coach swung around and, instead of decking the parent or yelling, calmly informed the parent that not only did his son not play the first half of last night's game because he decided to skip practice last Wednesday and not tell anyone, he is also not showing any drive or ambition to actually be out there. This is a good-sized kid, but he regularly gets knocked around in blocking drills by kids that he's got 20-30 pounds on, and despite our nearly constant reprimands, he tries to tackle every kid from the shoulders up. He's a good kid, and one of my son's best friend's on the team. But I've told him that I can't put him out on defense until he starts tackling better. This kid has an older brother who was a heck of a high school football player, aggressive as all get out, and very coachable. He's playing at a state DIII school now. I think that part of the problem is that our under-aggressive 7th grader has always been compared to his older bro. Ultimately our head coach calmed the situation down. But just fair warning to you sports parents out there ... if you want to see your kid get more playing time, calling the head coach a (poop) coach is definitely not the way to accomplish that. Instead, try contacting the coaching staff and find out how you can help your kid improve.