I don't know why this is hard to understand or accept for some people, but this thread has been an eye opener for me. This is Brian's site, it was his idea, it's been his effort, he gets to deal with the good side of things, he has to deal with the headaches that will inevitably pop up when "you're the man." Why would anyone assume Brian doesn't have the right to establish the rules he wants, and then enforce them? This is not a publicly funded institution, if Brian wants to require a secret knock and a funny handshake before you can come in...he can do that. The rules here are few, and they are basic, why is this even a discussion? It's either "Sure thing Brian" or go start your own site...how is this difficult?