Shaw going home on paternity and bereavement is a little different than Garza heading home the rest of the season. I realize this is pretty sensitive territory. I do sympathize with anyone who has ever lost a child. No one should ever have to feel that pain. On high risk pregnancies and other hardships, I'm not quite sure where the line in the sand is. But I do believe there is one. Should guys just start heading home for 9 months whenever their significant other becomes pregnant? Or if a child gets pneumonia? Again, what is the line in the sand? 'Where he needed to be relative to baseball ' isn't really his decision during the baseball season, not if he wants to get paid. Just like any other job, he has a contract that specifies his duties and emergencies that qualify him to be absent. My wife got some news during her most recent pregnancy several years ago that was very stressful on us (thankfully, everything turned out fine.) I could not simply go to my employer and ask to have a week off to deal with it. Maybe I'm less sympathetic as well because I did serve in Iraq and I saw many home hardships dealt with from afar, from cheating girlfriends and wives, high risk pregnancies, parents with cancer, just about anything you could think of. If a family member died, they tried to get you home, but other than that, nothing you could do but deal with it. Plenty of dads watching their children be born via Skype. I just want to add that I do understand that that is a completely different obligation and thing than baseball, which is just a game. And I fully realize and acknowledge that those experiences aren't a good reason to deny a baseball player going home to his family for an emergency. I guess I'm just asking what IS that line in the sand, because I do believe in some degree of loyalty to a team. It's NOT the player's right to decide what to prioritize. Those should be very carefully detailed out to him in his contract. It's not just a 'play when you can but feel free to go on home if things get rough' environment. It's an important obligation and part of their life. That's why I respect the heck out of guys who decide to walk away from millions at 32 when they're already set because spending time with family is more important to them.