Cusack i could live without. (How many times can you play the same freakin character!) However, High Fidelity = Awesomeness It is largely what you like. Because if you don't have things in common - well, you are going to drift apart anyways. However, I know plenty of Brewer fans who I can't stand. My advice, if you don't think you will miss her - then what is the point in being with her?