i think you'll like Raleigh. it has a lot of Yankees there ("Yankees" are from New England; "Northerners" are just from up north), and so there isn't as strong of a culture shock there. Highland is available in bottles, but you may have to hit a larger beer store to find any Pisgah. i've only been to one pub in Raleigh, but it was a beautiful place to sit in the daytime. i'll get the name of it for you before you leave. you'll find Red Oak on tap down there a lot (though not in bottles). it's a red ale sold as a cheap beer there, so it's not the light pilsner you might want for a summer afternoon, but for the money, it's an excellent beer. not an award-winner, but the best low-budget beer in North Carolina. Natty Green's is a brewpub in Raleigh and Greensboro that you'll also find on tap there. their Buckshot Amber is probably the most popular and is so-so. i always got their Southern Pale Ale for a good, lighter beer. and their Old Town Brown is very good. their Wildflower is popular for whatever reason, but is only good if you like a mildly hoppy beer with a cup of sugar in it--i couldn't even finish my first one. Foothills is a brewpub out of Winston-Salem, so i know that place well. their Double IPA is by far their best beer and it's excellent--you'll love it. their pilsner is ok (but not lighter and sweeter like you'd expect). otherwise, the rest of their offerings are absolute garbage, and i can't emphasize that enough. apart from that IPA, every other beer they make somehow tastes the same. they're all just one-note beers with a poor aftertaste. and that one note is a vague bitterness that sits terribly since it doesn't have any higher notes to balance the flavour out. Foothills offers a sampler of all their beers, so you'll see what i mean. i could probably rant a while about that place. not beer-related, but an area west of Winston-Salem compares seasonally to Napa Valley, so the wine coming out of North Carolina is superior to their beer. there's a lot of beautiful restaurants in that area and some good wine tasting tours if you two like that sorta thing.