yeah, no disrespect intended. i was a couple PBRs in as it was. and since when did PBR become the hipster beer of choice? in Winston-Salem, it's the most popular beer. $2 a glass. one of my bars even has it on tap. i've been thinking about all this "every good bar should have..." stuff. and when it comes down to it, the bars i go back to aren't necessarily the ones with good drink choices, but the ones with the best bartenders. it's not uncommon for a bartender to only acknowledge your existance at the point you need another drink, and that's sad. it doesn't even matter to me if the bartender is a guy or a pretty girl, but a simple "how are you today?" or a "What have you been up to?" really goes a long way for me. there was a bar in Winston where i could genuinely call every bartender there a friend of mine. i never met a single girl there, but that was the bar i always went to. it's such a nice feeling when people know you by name. the #1 way i judge the skill of a bartender: they ask you if you want another drink when you have an inch left of your beer, and not when the glass is already empty.