I met my wife online (on a free website, OKCupid), so online dating is definitely possible. After not having much initial success, I decided to change my strategy up a bit by seeing what my competition was like by creating a fake profile. I copied the profiles of a couple different women that I was attracted to into "my" profile. I then found "my" profile picture from someone random from my parent's trip to France and I was all set to be an imposter. I figured someone from France should be safe to use. Oh my is all I have to say. You get soooooo many emails and most of them are complete garbage. My worst was a visiting professor from Alabama that was saying he was in town for just the weekend while at a conference, yikes. My guess is he wasn't a professor or from Alabama. Most of the emails were just one liners or men talking about themselves. You could totally tell it was copied and pasted. It was actually kind of fun to be an imposter. After that little experiment, I successfully learned what not to do...and made my actual profile. In addition to this, I learned what to say (and not say) in an email. One last thing, I found that I had the most success when my profile was new, so I made new profiles every couple weeks. They were free, so why not? All of a sudden I was getting responses and even dates. For me, I found that asking to go on a date in the second email was the best approach. There were a few weeks where I had 3 dates with 3 different women on 3 nights in a row. That was really taxing for someone that is more introverted. The people at the mini golf course probably thought I really loved mini golf.