Mrs. Samurai and I are coming out of the other end of this -- our youngest of four is graduating high school this year (Milwaukee Suburb) and heading off to college. We made the decision, like you Cheez, that my wife would stay at home. Just before we got pregnant with our youngest, she went back to college to finish up her degree. She started entering the workforce on a part time basis a few years later. Now, she has a full time job and I do as well. Some challenges I see today vs. that of 25 years ago (our oldest is 25) are the "chauvinist" suggestions if a woman is going stay at home and care for her children. I look at my daughters and when they get a degree (one is in pharmacy), will she be willing to "give that up" to stay at home? I don't know. In my opinion, staying at home and caring for your children should not be discouraged, but lauded. That said, it is imperative that there is a good support system available. For us, our family was very involved, but also our church. Mrs. Samurai would often go to "Play Group" time with other moms and their children. It didn't only give the kids to play with other kids, but it also gave the moms a chance to talk with other adults. There were six mothers and once every six weeks each mom would get to drop their child / children off and then have a few hours to herself. She could go to the spa, go "shopping," or maybe go home and take a nap. Fortunately, we feel blessed in that things have worked out well. It certainly saved us money, and it also helped that we had waited a few years before having kids so our nest egg could get built up a little.