I'll work backwards here. First, congratulations to BrewCrewIn2004. I knew the wedding was coming up, but I thought it was a little further into the future. Second, phxMILWfan mentions something about the wife always being right. I don't think that's 100% correct, but there's merit. If one spouse feels really strongly about something and the other's able to acquiesce, that's how it should go. Third, pretendastronaut mentions that you'll be aggressively pursued by people who'll want to help (for money). If you think it might be worth your while, fine. If not, ignore them. Or don't ignore them and live and learn. Fourth, I've never been to Jamaica, but I think marijuana might be legal. If it is, remember that it's irrelevant if you need to pass a urinalysis once you return to the States. EDIT: I forgot to congratulate Ross. Congratulations!