Do you want to do touristy stuff or local stuff? The music scene is really good, I know that you enjoy listening to lots of indie rock, correct? Slim's, the Fillmore, Great American Music Hall, the Independent, Bottom of the Hill, and Bimbos are all great places to see a concert. There are a ton of great restaurants, but the Chronicle compiles a list every year found here. I can speak for Nopa and Zuni Cafe on the list, very good and not incredibly expensive (but that is for SF prices). Depending on the neighborhood you stay in that list can narrow it down for you, but the city is not big so non are more than a short cab ride away. Crissy Field is a great park with nice views of the Golden Gate bridge and a nice trail for walking or you can stroll up and down the beach by the bay. Muir woods is a park just over the Golden Gate bridge that contains tons of redwoods. It's literally 5 minutes out of the city and worth a visit. If you are going in winter it may be rainy, but if not the weather during the day never really dips lower than the 50s so if you can handle that any outdoor activity is fair game. But the city is not warm (even in summer - save a week here or there). Lots of diverse neighborhoods depending on your interests. Decent bars on Union Street, Fillmore, Divisidaro, and even some in the Marina (Horseshoe Pub is one I like - but be careful, the Marina can sort of turn into a yuppified Water Street bar scene late at night). There are also many places to go out of the city, north bay has Tiburon and Sausalito which are great to walk around in. Napa or Sonoma (Napa's less expensive and more down to earth cousin) is about an hour away I believe. Or you could go to Oakland and visit the wonderful, um, well, just don't go late at night to certain areas... http://forum.brewerfan.net/images/smilies/smile.gif