Just got married about a month and a half ago. We had about 100 guests and altogether, spent under $9K. We did that by: -Doing all the invitations/decorations/anything we could make ourselves. -Going cheap on flowers, and we did some of the arranging ourselves. -Getting married on a Monday, in late December. The mansion we rented was just happy to have the business... anything they made was like a bonus to them. Getting married in winter, especially on a weekday, will save a lot of money. And visit lots of reception sites. Someone will need the business and make you a deal. -Making our own music mixes and using our reception site's in-house music system. For the wedding dance (we didn't have a dance floor except for our first dance), we just brought in our Bose Wave radio and that busted out our jam loud enough to fill the room and then some. -No booze, though with how little we ended up spending on food (see next point), we could have had beer. If you need a lot of alcohol to have fun at a wedding, that's fine, but it's going to cost you. -Buffet. We found the biggest single cost driver would be food. We limited ourselves to 100 guests (and my wife has about that many cousins), but even then, a sit-down dinner would have been a budget buster. We arranged what was basically an appetizer buffet with the caterer and once again, it was a Monday in late December - they were happy for the business. If you can, find a reception site that either has a flexible and cost-conscious in-house caterer, or find a site that allows you to bring in your own caterer, and shop around for exactly what you want. -Instead of cake, we got about 17 pies from Baker's Square. Cost under $200 bucks, and who doesn't love pie? In the age of social media, just having guests take photos makes sense. We opted to hire pros, and spent about 20% of the total price tag on them. We were happy to do that - we didn't want people to feel obligated to take photos, we wanted them to have fun. Turns out, people did take some photos and we're still getting them. There were also some tech-savvy invitees who took videos for us. My wife spent a little over $1000 on her dress, including alterations. That might be a sticking point about keeping the overall price down, but she was fully aware that we could spend the money better on say, buying a house (which we did last year) or investing. And that's why I love her.