Same here. What's ironic is that I was a pretty laid-back student in my day. I drank, goofed off, etc. -- very typical undergrad experience. But ultimately I took ownership of my education and did the things that needed to be done without too much complaint or reliance on my parents. I once handled admissions for an undergrad major at UW-Madison, and we routinely rejected half of all the applicants. You wouldn't believe how many irate parents I had to soothe every semester. What made it especially difficult was that the students would feed misinformation to their parents about their grades/activities/the admissions process. A very typical conversation would involve a parent saying, "Well, Jane's roommate had a lower GPA and fewer activities, and she got into the major. That's not right!" These parents never seemed to realize that maybe -- just maybe -- Jane wasn't providing the entire story about her roommate's record, or her own. I also think that somehow the cultural norms about arguing have changed. I think there's more of a sense now that you have a right to complain/argue with anyone, anywhere, any time, about anything. My students will argue with me about policies clearly stated on the syllabus -- policies that they knew about on day one of the course and accepted.