Brian, while I can definately empathize with this issue, I'd stay away from a lawsuit unless it's your last possible hope. You certainly don't seem like the type of person (people, counting you and the wife) that would *want* to make money off of something like this, unless you felt that there was no other option. One thing I can say is that even one lawsuit brought against a doctor or clinic can give you a reputation that might follow you around as being "sue happy" even if you were justified in doing so. I also want to point out that in the last 10 years or so I've really come to learn that the plain truth is there's still a lot about the human body, the way it works, and it's mysteries that even the best doctors still don't know. I'm not saying that they're not just plain wrong sometimes, but there are times where they're as stumped as we are. I think in general people "trust" doctors to know everything about their field, and we want to feel like when we go to the hospital/doctor/clinic, that no matter what, we're going to be taken care of. 2 years ago, I had 3 days in a row of blinding, crippling headaches. I assumed of course, I was suffering migraines. I went to the ER, and they loaded me up on painkillers, gave me vicodin, and sent me home. After this happening 3 days, and then 3 days the following week (same 3 days), I went to a doctor. She said my BP was too high, causing the migraines. Put me on water pills and a low salt diet. Got my BP down to normal levels, and was still having the headaches. These headaches were so bad that I could not function for 2-3 days at a time, and if I had to take vicodin to control them, I couldn't work anyways. We weren't getting anywhere, so she sent me to a head doctor (neurologist?) who basically said the same thing. We did CATscans, we did MRI's, and still didn't get anywhere. HE sent me to a doctor in Milwaukee who took a guess, looked at another MRI, and figured out what was causing the headaches, which turned out not to be migraines at all, but cluster headaches. I won't get into the specifics of what caused it in myself, but If anybody here knows what they are or has ever had them, they could attest that they're far worse than migraines. Now, the bad part. This doctor says that as a whole, the medical field knows very little about the why's and what's of cluster headaches. They're in the "experimental" stages of treating it, and it basically amounts to taking medicine that's actually designed to control seizures in epileptics. Long story short, I was advised by many (uninformed, and not knowledgeable about malpractice laws I'm sure) that I should go after the first 2 doctors for misdiagnosis, because the amount of time I missed work due to this medical issue did eventually cost me my job. How can it be misdiagnosis when most doctors aren't even aware that the condition exists? It's a lonely, scary feeling to be in a doctors office and be told "This is what you have, we don't know much about it, the treatment we'll try is in the early experimental stages". It was a wakeup call, an epiphany of sorts, if you will, that these people are human too, they have good days, they have bad days, and sometimes when they're on the job, they get situations that they can't handle because the knowledge that's available is limited or might not exist at all. Now I realize that every day, doctors hold people's lives in their hands, and they should (and almost always do) strive to do the very best that they can. I know that a doctor's "bad day" can cost someone a life, but I think by and large, most of them do the best they can with what they have on a day to day basis. I'm not saying "don't sue", and I definately empathize with your situation, it's frustrating and scary to not know how to cope with a life altering medical condition. Just realize that most if not all of the doctors that are dealing with Nicole's health problems are most certainly trying their best based on the knowledge they have about the symptoms that are described to them.