"They started it." Seriously. Are you a child?
If you actually look at what was said, you will see that my initial response was not directed at anything having to do with your specific opinion on the trade. Rather, you were questioning why other posters didn't happen to see things your way, exclaiming that the truth is "usually simple". I replied that the truth is "generally in between two extremes", as represented by your opinion that the trade was purely a salary dump and in contrast to other posters' opinions that the trade was made to obtain valuable pitching depth and pave the way for our young outfield prospects. So, no, I never said that your opinion on this topic wasn't based on reality. It was, instead, the callous manner in which you were dismissing other peoples' opinions and claiming that the truth is "usually simple" that elicited my subsequent response.
Again, I realize you're new here, so you may not understand the rules. But taking things to a personal level, in particular, bringing up someone's family, is totally out of bounds. This forum is for baseball, and baseball discussion only. Hence, my encouragement to you to "think more before you post."