We had a real cheap wedding, but we had ours at the UW Memorial Union, and it is very inexpensive to rent space there for Union members. Still, costs could have soared, but we kept them down. Here are a few tips... 1) Flowers are expensive. Cut back on them as much as you can. 2) Go with "cheap" beer (Miller Lite) 3) Invitations are just pieces of paper. Your fiance may care how they look, but most people who get them really won't care how much you spent on them. 4) Get something cheap for favors. We gave each guest only one Lindor truffle. No one cared. 5) a. Ask a lot of questions to potential photographers. Do you get the proofs? Do you get the pictures after a year? b. Don't buy a wedding album from your photographer. If you get a CD of all your pictures, make your own album. You can get them for under $100 (vs. $1000 from the photographers 6) Don't get a limo or other transportation for your wedding party. 7) Be aware of all of the extra charges your reception hall will have, and determine what ones you think are necessary and which are not. Is it worth an extra $0.50/guest for a second salad dressing choice? 8) Sometimes, getting sheet cakes can be cheaper than a fancy wedding cake. 9) No open bar. We did free beer and soda, cash everything else (please, do free beer and soda, though).