This is the perspective that I don't really understand. Which guidelines are life changing? I can't think of anything I've done recently that feels like my life has changed and I've traveled, dined indoors, and been in social gatherings while following the rules. I just canceled a trip to NM in November due to their 14-day quarantine for high-risk state visitors. I am almost definitely not taking a planned trip to Japan (probably can't if I wanted to) in March. I think generally speaking, not THAT much has changed locally, at least nothing I would categorize as life-changing. As an aside, my mother passed away in March and we have not services due to her family being on the East Coast, mostly 65+, and not able/willing to travel easily. I'm sure there are many instances of that sort of thing. On a larger scale this thing is killing many businesses, big and small. My employer has been decimated and laid off 1,000 people since the start. Small retail businesses are getting crushed. Travel-related jobs have been obliterated. If you are safely employed, the overall impact has been fairly minimal. But, there are always people who aren't you. I should be clear that there are major life-changing consequences of the pandemic, as you point out, but the part I'm not understanding is the connection between the current set of government regulations and the life-changing consequences. From what I can the civil disobedience is really quite minor...i.e. there is little to no difference in day-to-day life between the places with low and high compliance to mask/social distancing guidelines. And everyone seems to accept that masks reduce virus spread. So I feel like I'm not understanding the reason for not following these rules besides petty political disagreements. Sorry about your mother and not being able to properly say goodbye. I worry every day about my grandmother who is in the Milwaukee area with my relatives trying their best to keep COVID away from her. It's a big part of the reason that the poor compliance for regulations in WI makes me so angry.