I'm getting hitched in July and the fiancé and I are trying to have a poor wedding too. We're having the ceremony at a park two block from my house and having the party at a pavilion in the park as well. It was less than $200 to rent it all out and the city will even set up the chairs for the wedding of 130 guests. We're both non-religious so we asked our neighbor to marry us. It's less than $50 to become ordained. A friend who plays piano for a living will play some music for the ceremony. I hate tuxes and would rather wear my suit. The fiancé's parents unexpectedly cut us a nice check for the wedding so I decided to splurge a few hundred on a brand new suit. The bride's dress will be about the same. The groomsmen will just wear their own suits and the bridesmaids will wear their own dresses. For photography, I have an acquaintance who does it professionally who will do my wedding at a huge discount. I hate watching myself on video so we're skipping the videographer. Not sure what we're doing for flowers and invitations yet. For the party, my father offered to pay for food and drinks. We're gonna have broasted chicken and mashed potatoes catered in from a local mom and pop restaurant. We'll probably make up a couple other dishes for the vegans. For desert we'll get some pies. I've been stocking up for the last month or so on soda and beverages. We'll probably have a keg or two of beer and some bottles of hard stuff. I might hire an acquaintance to make drinks or I might just let the guests make their own. When the booze runs out, it runs out. Music will be provided by my stereo and iPod playlist. Sam's club is a great place for food, booze, plates, table settings, etc. Come evening, I arranged for some bands of my choice to be booked to play at my favorite music venue. That way, the venue will be in charge of paying the bands. Come 10:00, whoever is left at the party will head over to the venue to finish the night with some live music. I'm hoping that there will be a decent of money left over that the sweetie and I can take a nice honeymoon. Hopefully Europe. Weddings don't have to be expensive at all. It's the wedding industry that profits. There are many books and websites out there that help you plan a wedding on the cheap. No one is going to remember, much less care about some stupid gold embossed napkins with your name on it, or an engraved cake cutter. What you'll remember is the quality time you'll be sharing with your new wife and the people who you care about. Nothing else matters.