Just a comment (or two) from another BF.net teacher/educator: 1. In 24 years, I think I have received only a handful of "gifts", and they were all fairly small, inexpensive items. It never has bothered me and I never expected anything. If I do receive something, it IS appreciated, though. 2. In 24 years, I have never--not one single time--had a three month vacation. EVERY summer (and I, literally, mean every summer) has been TWO months off of school--at the most. (We end in May, right before Memorial Day, and we go back to school at the end of July. It's an Arizona thing, I guess.) However, EVERY summer, I (and my wife) are taking classes (either online or in-person) for professional development, working on prep work for the upcoming school year (planning out the year, working on lesson plans, finding and researching classroom projects, etc.), and (mainly) doing a bit of decompressing because we can finally do some teaching work without the stress of dealing with students and parents. There is a huge misconception that teachers spend their summers at the beach, poolside, the golf course, etc. MOST teachers do exactly the same things that my wife and I do EVERY summer. (Yes, we aren't hedonists. We DO take a bit of R&R, too. But it's not much.) 3. I can't speak for other districts around the country, but our district pays us for our 10 months of work, while the up-to-two months of summer you are expected to have saved money from your paychecks (and the final balloon payment) to get you through the summer. You do NOT get paid for the summer months. Instead, you have to budget the money that you've earned. Overall, the salaries of teachers and the salaries of, for instance, a person who works a 9-5 office job, are pretty much similar. They get paid for 12 months; we get paid for 9 (or 10 in my case). But our paychecks may be slightly larger to offset the not getting income for 2-3 months. (Technically, the balloon payment on the last day of school is your 3-4 paychecks that you would normally receive over those 2 months, but smashed into one paycheck.) I don't know how much of any of this is common knowledge. I'm just letting you know how it is for me and my wife. Your results may vary (if you are also a teacher.)