Congrats!! I am a proud father of a 6 month old boy. Needless to say, but he is the greatest joy in my life! I'm very happy for you to be able to experience the same happiness. Here's a few of my tips, but the main one is to remember your child is Innocent! He/She is not doing anything wrong as they are just learning how to get through the day. If you're tired, angry, irritable...DO NOT take it out on the baby for crying too much or keeping you from a task that you've been wanting to get done (or watching a Brewer/Bucks/Packers game) This was the hardest thing for me to learn. It took me about 1 month to click, and once it did, the bond that I was able to create with my son grew epically. Basically, I had to come to the realization that I was battling "Time". More specifically, my time versus baby time. I was trying to do everything I could for my wife, the upkeep of the home, working my job, being a great father but also trying to find time for ME. Trying to find time for ME was still very important to me as I thought that I could still have the life I led prior to the birth of my son. THE PROBLEM with that theory however was that whenever I tried to do something for "me" or "my time", I would get interrupted by my son and his needs. I would get more and more frustrated with this and it definitely affected many areas of m life. This affected my happiness to being a father as well as my relationship with my wife as it created more irritability on my part which my wife of course picked up on. Once she saw my irritability, she became more irritable as well. But then it happened. An Epiphany. I realized that "my time" no longer existed and will not exist for many years. "My time" was now "Baby Time and Fatherhood". There's always going to be a time or challange that will require your attention as a father. But here's the thing...once I realized this, I wasn't upset with that reality. I was immediately focused on my son and because of it, it has allowed me to be a better father and a more relaxed and open father during crisis'. So there you go. Try your hardest to allow yourself to come to terms that "your time" is now "baby time" as your baby's life is now priority 1 for you. Don't get me wrong... I still find time for myself, but if I have to attend to my son, I no longer get frustrated...I get excited! Other tips... 1) Swaddle! Get the SwaddleMe brand from Target. This product alone has allowed my wife and I to sleep throughout the night as it pretty much restrained our son from his herky jerky movements at night which would wake him up...resulting in waking us up. 2) Take many videos and pics! it's fun to go back and track your child's growth and experiences. 3) Try not to purchase new clothes. Go to yard sales, and seek friends who have kids who are looking to get rid of clothes. Newborns and infants grow through sizes like no other and getting second hand clothes will save you a lot of money. 4) Gas Drops: This really helps if your child is constipated. You'll know if they are constipated when his/her stomach gets really hard, hasn't pooped in a while, and crys in pain. 5) As others have suggested...accept the help given/offered to you from family and friends. If your family asks to watch your child for 4 hours so that you and your wife can get 4 hours of non-stop sleep....DO IT AND DON'T ASK QUESTIONS! If people want to cook you dinner, accept it! Sleep though is key. Ask friends, neighbors and family to come over and watch your child for a few hours. They will come running to do so and you'll benefit from the sleep! My son is 6 months and I love him more and more every minute! Can't wait to see what tomorrow will bring. Best of luck RobDeer and others!