As for whether UW is 'too big'...only you can decide that, but I'll mention that I spent my high school years convinced that I could never feel comfortable at a big school. Then after choosing a small (like 1100 enrollment - similar to my high school) college in the area, I felt closed in almost right away, and found to my surprise that UW-Madison was in fact a good match for me. I found that although it was (and is) a big school, there are many ways to scale it down. In my case, I'm sure it helped that I picked a low-enrollment major, but when I was in large lectures, I made a point of sitting toward the front of the room, which helped faculty/instructors recognize me, and I did not hesitate to ask for help (academic and otherwise) when I needed it. And this was all in the 1980s; in the intervening years, UW-Madison has put a ton of effort into making the campus less "big" (as in overwhelming) and the student experience more personal. You still have to make some effort, but being in college, I hope you are ready for that anyway. Another thing that I discovered was just as important to me as being able to scale down the campus when I needed help...was being able to blend in when I wanted to. At the college where I started, there was zero opportunity to do that, and I did not like the feeling of everyone knowing everyone. I felt like I had the best of both worlds at UW. Of course, MU isn't nearly as small. Also, just saying...it's not like there aren't "sports around" at UW-Madison. Your access to Badger sports will never be as inexpensive again, as they are while you're a student. Good luck deciding, and congratulations on scoring in what has become the UW-Madison undergraduate admissions lottery.